Thanks for the support and advice, but I don't think I can do much about this. For one, I don't want to break Rook's anonymity to ask him to provide documentation. For two, if I did bring this up in the divorce, STBEH would simply claim that he had my consent, and there would be no way to prove it one way or the other.
When talking this over with Mycha, he suggested a possible explanation for much of STBEH's behavior: he's a voyeur. That plus his control issues would explain so much. When we first got into Second Life, he encouraged me to cyber with other people, so long as he got to watch (or at least listen). Later, he would get upset with me because (in his words) what was he supposed to do when I'd already climaxed a dozen times or more with somebody online? I wasn't with any of my online lovers to turn him on; I was with them because I liked them! It would explain why he sent Rook nude photos of me and (I neglected to mention this in my last post) invited him to visit to have sex with me (another violation of my consent). It would explain why, once he found another couple to get involved with, he didn't want me to see anyone else. After all, if I've got both a man and a woman I can do sexy stuff with, why would I need anyone else? It would explain why he insisted that Al and I get on cam while I was visiting Al and Ali was visiting STBEH. It would explain why he had such a problem with me going to visit Mycha.
Because it was all about him wanting to watch me be with someone else. It was never about what I wanted.
On a good note, I've got someone coming to look at the house tomorrow! Hopefully, it will lead to a sale.
When talking this over with Mycha, he suggested a possible explanation for much of STBEH's behavior: he's a voyeur. That plus his control issues would explain so much. When we first got into Second Life, he encouraged me to cyber with other people, so long as he got to watch (or at least listen). Later, he would get upset with me because (in his words) what was he supposed to do when I'd already climaxed a dozen times or more with somebody online? I wasn't with any of my online lovers to turn him on; I was with them because I liked them! It would explain why he sent Rook nude photos of me and (I neglected to mention this in my last post) invited him to visit to have sex with me (another violation of my consent). It would explain why, once he found another couple to get involved with, he didn't want me to see anyone else. After all, if I've got both a man and a woman I can do sexy stuff with, why would I need anyone else? It would explain why he insisted that Al and I get on cam while I was visiting Al and Ali was visiting STBEH. It would explain why he had such a problem with me going to visit Mycha.
Because it was all about him wanting to watch me be with someone else. It was never about what I wanted.
On a good note, I've got someone coming to look at the house tomorrow! Hopefully, it will lead to a sale.
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