Your First

[Red Panda]

I wish I had kept track of the first dime I ever earned.

My first kiss was in the 1st Grade; does that count?

I think it should because my first kiss was in 2nd grade. It was special!!!! We were in love!!!!


First time I did something sexual was when I was 12 but I didn't have actual sex until 14.

[Greenday]

My first kiss was with...a friend's girlfriend. I was watching her and one of my other girl friends practicing for the Lip Sync (some middle school event). My friend that was there had to go to the bathroom and as soon as the door was shut, my friend's girlfriend hopped on top of my lap and kissed me. I know she had offered to do a lot with me but being my friend's girlfriend, I couldn't say yes. No idea where she is these days. After that year, she moved and never heard from her again.

My first for nearly everything else was my first serious girlfriend back in high school. First time we had sex was in her basement. It was amazing. Our problem was the long distance thing. We couldn't deal with it so we broke up but stayed friends. The real problem was when we hooked up afterwards. I think she said yes because she wanted me to stay with her. It didn't work. We only talked a couple of times after that. I never really forgave myself for having sex with her after we broke up. I should have known that's what she was thinking.

[Hobbs]

Aww, everyone has cutesy elementary-school kisses >.>

[tropicsgoddess]

I was 15 when I got my first kiss at my birthday party from my ex, S (he was 3 1/2 years older than me). When my (now fiance) J and I were 19, we lost our virginity together at his place.

[Green_Fairy]

When my (now fiance) J and I were 19, we lost our virginity together at his place.

that's so cute! when The Boy and i were together in highschool 5 years ago, we never had sex. i was a virgin at the time and stuff. every now and then he mentions that he wishes he had been my first. me too. *le sigh*

[LeChatNoir]

I am technically married to my "first" boyfriend. Unfortunately he wasn't sexually my first (I lost my virginity in a situation that might be described as rape, that left me emotionally scarred for a very long time), but he was the first guy I said "I love you" to, he was the first person who never made me doubt why he was with me, and he was the "first" and hopefully only person I married

The first guy I dated I do not have contact with at all. We only went out for a few weeks, and then he started ignoring me. I have no idea what he's doing these days.

I try not to get hung up on all the firsts that didn't happen in ways I would have planned.

[Nyoibo]

So, I actually had my first kiss 2 nights ago, as well as several other firsts, which we then proceeded to do many times over again for the next 2 days.

[Crazedclerkthe2nd]

I'm still with my first...in fact I decided to marry her.

I didn't have sex until my 20s and IMO it was well worth the wait for the right partner.

[Ele]

My first kiss was a very funny embarassed sloppy face pash with a schoolfriend when we were 13. We stayed friends.

Several years later he was my first lover. I had no idea that he was a little criminal sociopath with bipolar disorder who would rob my parents' house the next day. He was caught by police, he told me to get lost and die when I asked him why he did it.... and we never spoke again.

... to this day a complete mystery...

[jedimaster91]

However, if I found out that he got dick and ball rot, then I might smile a little.

I have a couple ex-boyfriends I could say the same about.



The boy who gave me my first kiss unfortunately died when I was a senior in high school. We had broken up by then, but we were still good friends, and I believe we still would be. Losing him screwed me up for a long time.

Hub and I didn't have sex until our wedding night.

[Nyoibo]

So I actually lost my virginity 3 days ago, she's also the first girlfriend I've ever had so i have nothing really to compare this to, but I seem to be turning into one of those people I always hated seeing who's always arm in arm with their girlfriend and such... and I'm loving every minute of it.

[Dasota]

My first kiss was when I was 7. The Boys and Girls Club I went to had carpet on the walls as well as the floor. I have that poor boy rug burn when I tackled him against the wall and stole a kiss.

My first boyfriend was in middle school. We started dating because he was the only boy that would slow dance with me at the school dance. BUT! I think it was worth it. We lasted over a year, and I broke up with him because I had recently become friends with a new neighbor who's parents were together since middle school themselves and had never been with anyone else. I tweaked because I was a cynic even at that age, and NO ONE gets it right the first time I thought.

He and I were off and on then casually all through high school up until my current boyfriend. He was also my first when I was 17.

His parents and older siblings were all out on a call (firefighters and EMTs) and I was bored. Was still great sex though, haha. We still talk. Though I do have to limit myself a bit unfortunately. I have HORRID commitment issues, and he's always been "comfortable" and "safe", but also "taboo" when either or both of us has been dating someone else.

I still love him and care about him. His girlfriend is pregnant, and I hope his child is born happy and healthy and stays that way. His girlfriend? She looks like a troll and acts like one too.

My first time meeting her, I was sleeping his roommate's room (Who had lent me his room while he was at work) and I had woken to her SCREECHING at both my Ex and Ex's roomie.

Since I had known both of them for a long time, and was VERY protecting of them, it wasn't a first impression for either of us. Me waking up and grumpy coming out of a guy's room and being her boyfriend's "The Ex" and her yelling at the people who lived in the apartment (and she wasn't) about how they kept things.

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Can you tell I still care about my Ex? As well as the other 2 guys that were part of our little gang through school

[Hobbs]

Nyobio, as Cheech Marin said, "Better late than never."

Ok, everyone post stories like Dasota's. That's a nice one. The tackling-stolen kiss is kinda cute

[jackfaire]

My first kiss was when I was 7. The Boys and Girls Club I went to had carpet on the walls as well as the floor. I have that poor boy rug burn when I tackled him against the wall and stole a kiss.

A girl was chasing me down on the playground when I was 7 to try and kiss me I looked back to see how far back she was. Then when I looked forward it was just in time to hit the metal pole nose first. She got her kiss and I got my first bloody nose.

[Sarah Valentine]

My first kiss was a boy I had a crush on in high school and I kissed him during a game of truth or dare. My first sexual partner is actually a good friend of mine, that let to a weird on/off relationship and us being fwb for a while, but now we're best friends.