I hate your family.

[RavenStarr]

Then your BF needs to cut all ties with his toxic family. What his "father" is doing to him is emotional abuse.

[Fryk]

"I don't think you need to go"? Who the flippity fuck cares if you think he needs to go or not??

I agree... cut ties.

[HYHYBT]

Sounds like BF's family doesn't even like *him*, much less you. You don't plan on living near them after the wedding, do you?

[Fryk]

If I could choose, I wouldn't even want to live on the same PLANET as them. Ahhhh, lovely Pluto, so remote, so peaceful...

[BuggedMei]

Sounds like BF's family doesn't even like *him*, much less you. You don't plan on living near them after the wedding, do you?

If there was to be a wedding, I would make sure to live as far as humanly possible away from them.

If I could choose, I wouldn't even want to live on the same PLANET as them. Ahhhh, lovely Pluto, so remote, so peaceful...

Is that humanly possible??


I just invited the boyfriend to go to the Steampunk World's Fair... I can't wait to see his family's reaction to this one. I'm giving up on being nice. I'm wearing my normal clothes and I feel like just telling them off for once. I have been nothing but nice to you people, and what do I get in return? Nothing.

I even think my boyfriend is showing signs of depression now (He's done nothing but slept and gone to work this week. He will barely eat anything or play a game with me..) ._. Great. I have no doubt in my mind they are just killing the poor boy.

[Plaidman]

I even think my boyfriend is showing signs of depression now (He's done nothing but slept and gone to work this week. He will barely eat anything or play a game with me..) ._. Great. I have no doubt in my mind they are just killing the poor boy.

Dress like an Elf during bedtime. . That otta cheer him up somewhat.


And, if you don't mind extreme advice, be loud. Be very very very very loud.

[HYHYBT]

If there was to be a wedding...

Oops! Sorry about that; don't know where that idea came from unless maybe it was something else I'd been reading before this.

[MaggieTheCat]

I sort of skimmed most of the responses here, so apologies if this has already been covered...but, is there any way you two could get an apartment and move in together? Or even have him move in with your parents, until that's possible? He really needs to get out from under his family, they seem to be suffocating him. The part-time job, the signs of depression...he could probably do better on every angle if he could put some distance between himself and them.

[BuggedMei]

Oops! Sorry about that; don't know where that idea came from unless maybe it was something else I'd been reading before this.

Hhahahha, its ok. The question was about if we had a wedding and what it would be like (pirate wedding, ftw.) when I made the comment that I wouldn't invite his parents.

I sort of skimmed most of the responses here, so apologies if this has already been covered...but, is there any way you two could get an apartment and move in together? Or even have him move in with your parents, until that's possible? He really needs to get out from under his family, they seem to be suffocating him. The part-time job, the signs of depression...he could probably do better on every angle if he could put some distance between himself and them.

He said he was going to apply to college down by me and mom has already OKed him moving in under the condition that he gets a job. The only problem is I can't tell if he really applied anymore because all he talks about is how stupid he is lately.

He slept for about sixteen hours yesterday ._. I called his phone a hundred thousand times to try and wake him up but nothing... he got up, talked to me for an hour, and went back to bed...

[Fryk]

It should be possible....
I should just need a space heater and an oxygen mask, right?

That should work, right?

[RavenStarr]

The only problem is I can't tell if he really applied anymore because all he talks about is how stupid he is lately.

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When you get called stupid and other names so many times for so long.............you start to actually believe you really are.

Really BuggedMei get him away from his toxic family ASAP.