Men and Women Can't Be Friends

[Kheldarson]

Um...Kabe's still my best friend and we're sleeping together. Married even. He's the guy that I would always choose to hang out with no matter what. Isn't that a definition of friendship?

[Greenday]

And this precludes friendship how? You can't be friends with someone you are fucking or would like to fuck?

Creepy.

No, but then you aren't "Friends" if you are boning, are you?

[Kheldarson]

Um...my best guy friend for the longest time wouldn't have gotten with me. In fact, he married someone else entirely.

My current best guy friend, well, he and I are married now. But we were just buddies until things just sorta clicked.

[AdminAssistant]

I think that once you're paired off, then absolutely. If you're both single...ehhh.

[Sleepwalker]

And this precludes friendship how? You can't be friends with someone you are fucking or would like to fuck?

Creepy.

[Greenday]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA

Start it off with that video. But to sum it up:

Men, do you REALLY just want to be friends with most of your female friends? Or would you REALLY like more but just settle?

Women, think about who your best guy friend is. Would he hook up with you given the chance?

I'll answer both questions for the majority of people: No, yes, and yes.

I admit it, most women I become friends with, I'd enjoy being more than just friends with them. There's maybe one female friend that I never had feelings for in more than a friend way. And you know what? I can't help it. It's not exactly something you can control.