Intruding Prudes

[Hobbs]

Well, then, she should have said "members".

Gang "banger" is a completely proper term to use when discussing someone who is in a gang or related to gang activity.

[Ladeeda]

I think she meant gang bangers as in gang members.

Well, then, she should have said "members".

And if that's the case, fights, grafitti, stealing, mugging, whatever other stuff gang members do besides trying to kill each other, and even that causes HAAAAARM.

[LexiaFira]

Sex with a 13 year old is still illegal but not as icky as being a pedo. You should definitly be ashamed if you go after 13 year olds.

sex with a 13 year old IS pedophilia. icky or not. the only technicality being that its two 13 year olds or someone younger than the 13 year old. where is your head at today?

[KnitShoni]

I think she meant gang bangers as in gang members.

[Ladeeda]

Racists and other bigots hate people for something they can't change. Fat people can change.

Would you get mad if I said I hated pedophiles? Rapists? Murders? Gang Bangers.

Man, its racists to hate those people. They aren't hurting anybody. Stop telling rapists to not rape, its their right to rape and if you oppose rapists then you are a jerk and hate people for no reason.

Seriously? I think you know better than that.

People of different RACES don't hurt people just because they are X race. RACISTS do. Harassment, a history of violence and suppression of civil rights.

Rapists RAPE. They HURT people. They cause DAMAGE, physical and psychological.

Pedophiles are ABUSERS. They take advantage of CHILDREN with little ability to protect themselves. Just another, often more dispised version of RAPE.

Murderers KILL PEOPLE. Causing HARM.

Gang bangers... well, if it's an orgy thing, that's fine if everyone's a consenting adult. If you mean a group rape, that's a GROUP RAPE.

Fat people are... heavy. That's it. Any damaging consequences affect only the HEAVY PERSON. They do not cause harm to ANYONE ELSE.


Seriously, you know better. It's like the bigots who compare homosexuality to bestiality and pedophilia. No comparison at all.

[Hobbs]

Please show me sources that show people can gain several hundred pounds only because of stress. This does not include eating to deal with stress. That is an eating problem not a stress problem.

Chronic stress and cortisol can contribute to weight gain in the following ways:


Metabolism -- Do you feel like you're prone to putting on more weight when you're stressed, even if you're eating the same amount of food as you always have? Too much cortisol can slow your metabolism, causing more weight gain than you would normally experience. This also makes dieting more difficult.
Cravings -- OK, you're stressed. Do you reach for a nice salad or a pint of Ben & Jerry's? I'll bet on the latter. People experiencing chronic stress tend to crave more fatty, salty and sugary foods. This includes sweets, processed food and other things that aren’t as good for you. These foods are typically less healthy and lead to increased weight gain.

Blood Sugar -- Prolonged stress can alter your blood sugar levels, causing mood swings, fatigue, and conditions like hyperglycemia. Too much stress has even been linked to metabolic syndrome, a cluster of health concerns that can lead to greater health problems, like heart attacks and diabetes.

Fat Storage -- Excessive stress even affects where we tend to store fat. Higher levels of stress are linked to greater levels of abdominal fat. Unfortunately, abdominal fat is not only aesthetically undesirable, it’s linked with greater health risks than fat stored in other areas of the body.

[Red Panda]

Racists and other bigots hate people for something they can't change. Fat people can change.

Would you get mad if I said I hated pedophiles? Rapists? Murders? Gang Bangers.

Man, its racists to hate those people. They aren't hurting anybody. Stop telling rapists to not rape, its their right to rape and if you oppose rapists then you are a jerk and hate people for no reason.

[Ladeeda]

Is in intolerant if I don't accept a racist? Or a rapist? If somebody chooses to be a way that affects others then they should either be ashamed or face intolerence.

Oh, boy. Here we go again. Overweight people do NOT affect others. Yes yes, health insurance. I'll just beat Plaidman to it and ask, once again, about Smokers--who stink up the air (sorry, all Smokers on board, but it does. And breezes push it around making ME cough at a distance), or people who drink, or how about those with cancer who need their insurance to pay for hospital bills? Whoo, they push premiuims through the roof.

I'm glad you brought up racists, actually. I think this is comparable to the modern racist. You think overweight people are beneath you. LESS than you (see what I did there?), and should hide themselves and be ashamed.

I know what I don't tolerate: I don't tolerate people who look down on others for moot reasons. Fat folk aren't harming anyone by being fat. YOU, however, want fat folk to walk around covered head to heel just so you don't have to look at them.

No insult, just fact here: you are a hateful person. Full of hate. Full of pointless, useless, poisonous hate.

[Red Panda]

Intolerance should be unacceptable in society. Of any sort. Sexism, racism, religion, doesn't matter. NO ONE should feel "shamed" by who they are, who they want to be, or who they choose to be. Laws do and should apply to all equally and without bias. I don't care what you look like, being naked in public is indecent exposure. And I don't care what anyone else thinks I look like, I wear what I want. I am ashamed of nothing. And no one else should feel that they need to be.

Your statements are downright offensive. Who are you to decide what society should do? What gives you that privilege?

Is in intolerant if I don't accept a racist? Or a rapist? If somebody chooses to be a way that affects others then they should either be ashamed or face intolerence.

Having a sedentary job where you spend 8+ hours a day sitting at a desk, or at a computer or what have you can cause you to gain weight. Sometimes people are simply too tired at the end of the day to go out and exercise, that's not laziness on their part.

Not doing something because it is easier is the definition of lazy. You might be tired but if you excersized not only would you be less tired in the future but you would be helping your body.

It can and does cause people to gain a lot of weight. You really are ignorant. High levels of stress can cause anyone to gain weight, sometimes a lot of it. You're giving the impression that you think "fat" people don't have any reason to be stressed. Which is BS.

Please show me sources that show people can gain several hundred pounds only because of stress. This does not include eating to deal with stress. That is an eating problem not a stress problem.

[muses_nightmare]

Job? Are you the taste tester at a pie factory? Are you in charge of cleaning up piles of chocolate and the only way to do so is to eat it? What job makes you gain weight?

Having a sedentary job where you spend 8+ hours a day sitting at a desk, or at a computer or what have you can cause you to gain weight. Sometimes people are simply too tired at the end of the day to go out and exercise, that's not laziness on their part.

Stress? Maybe you are stressed because you only have three jars of gravy to go with dinner instead of five. Stress won't make you gain hundreds of pounds

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It can and does cause people to gain a lot of weight. You really are ignorant. High levels of stress can cause anyone to gain weight, sometimes a lot of it. You're giving the impression that you think "fat" people don't have any reason to be stressed. Which is BS.

If a fat person is naked in their home that is their issue. They should show shame at their condition and do everything to avoid showing flesh, but there is no way to stop them, other then letting them know they are not acceptable in society.

Not all fat people think of themselves as ugly or think they should be ashamed of themselves. Also, not all things "society" thinks are acceptable make sense or are right, you seem to blindly follow stereotypes that society thinks are acceptable. It's just the impression you give to me anyway.

Also, how many of these horribly fat people are you seeing on a daily basis? I'm very curious about this.

[radiocerk]

Intolerance should be unacceptable in society. Of any sort. Sexism, racism, religion, doesn't matter. NO ONE should feel "shamed" by who they are, who they want to be, or who they choose to be. Laws do and should apply to all equally and without bias. I don't care what you look like, being naked in public is indecent exposure. And I don't care what anyone else thinks I look like, I wear what I want. I am ashamed of nothing. And no one else should feel that they need to be.

Your statements are downright offensive. Who are you to decide what society should do? What gives you that privilege?

[Amanita]

Wow..So much ignorance and hate in that post I'm not even going to bother unpacking it all.
I'll be damned if I'm going to feel shame just because somebody like you told me to.

[Red Panda]

There are plenty of people who can't excersize or are even wheelchair ridden who manage to not weigh a ton. Thats because they eat one serving at dinner instead of 12.

If you can sit around eating junk food all day then good for you, you are lucky.

But if you get up to 400 or more pounds then you only have yourself to blame. Nobody has shown me evidence of a medical condition that causes that much wieght gain. There are ones where you gain weight but 60 pounds doesn't make you morbidly obese unless you are already doing several things wrong.

Lack of excersize can contribute, but if you eat healthy it won't make you gain that much. Even then, not excersizing is your own fault

Job? Are you the taste tester at a pie factory? Are you in charge of cleaning up piles of chocolate and the only way to do so is to eat it? What job makes you gain weight?

Stress? Maybe you are stressed because you only have three jars of gravy to go with dinner instead of five. Stress won't make you gain hundreds of pounds.


Fat people need to admit that they are the reason they are fat.

If a fat person is naked in their home that is their issue. They should show shame at their condition and do everything to avoid showing flesh, but there is no way to stop them, other then letting them know they are not acceptable in society.

[Hobbs]

A 13 year old is still underage by law. Unless you subscribe to the ideals that anyone that hits puberty should be allowed to have sex with whatever age. Which there are girls as young as seven hitting puberty.

I think that RP means that it's not pedophilia to go after a 13 year old, it's Hebephilia.

Ginger Tea, that's why I love Japan.

[protege]

A "sign of weakness?" Are you kidding me?

Not all fat people are that way because they can't control their eating habits. Some of them, yes. But, there are other causes--medical conditions, lack of exercise, stress, one's job, to name a few. So, to put them all in that category is a bit ignorant, don't you think?

Take my grandfather, who was a bit on the heavy side. And no, it was *not* from eating too much. Grandpa was pretty strong, and was by no means a pussy. He was, after all, a guy who blew up bridges and was in charge of heavy explosives during WWII. Did I mention he was a boxer and wrestler? Not surprising since he was over 6' and built like a Mack truck

Anyhoo, by the time he was in his 30s, his knees started giving out. For some reason, he had no cartilage in his knees...making it not only difficult, but painful to walk. He'd exercise when he could, but it was extremely painful. Plus, lifting weights doesn't burn the same amount of calories and fat that cardio does

So, there you see one example disproving your belief. I'm sure people on this board could provide others...
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Back on topic here, not all of us *want* to see strangers, or even people we know naked. Sorry, but I don't want to see that.